Helping someone with a hoarded home: a compassionate guide
A gentle guide for families worried about a loved one's hoarded home, covering how to talk about it, where to find support, working at their pace…

A house clearance feels enormous when you are standing in the hallway looking at a lifetime of belongings. Broken into steps, it becomes manageable. This checklist walks you through the order we suggest, from the first conversation to handing back clean, empty rooms.
Start with the end point, because it shapes every other decision. Are you getting a property ready for sale, returning a rented home to a landlord, preparing a holiday cottage for a refit, or clearing a family home after a death? Each has a different deadline and different people who need to be kept informed.
Work backwards from your deadline. Leave time for family to visit, for any valuations, and for a quote. Most people underestimate how long sorting takes, especially when there are photographs and letters to look through. If you live away from Whitby, plan your visits so that sorting happens on one trip and the clearance itself can go ahead without you if needed.
Go room by room with a roll of coloured stickers or masking tape. Four groups work well:
Take your time with the first two groups. Everything else can be handled by the people doing the clearance.
Before any clearance, look for bank statements, pension letters, share certificates, insurance documents, passports, spare keys and anything with a signature on it. Check coat pockets, handbags, drawers, the backs of wardrobes and inside books. We set aside any paperwork, photographs and valuables we find for you, but it is always better if the important things are already safe.
Access is often the biggest practical factor in Whitby. Cottages in the yards on the East Side and properties reached by steps can only be cleared by carrying everything by hand to where a van can wait. Parking in the old town is limited, and some streets are steep and narrow. In the Esk Valley and on the moors, farm tracks and gated lanes need a bit of planning too.
Make a note of:
Mentioning these up front means the quote is accurate and the day runs smoothly.
Ask for a quote based on photos or a visit, and make sure it is fixed rather than an estimate that could creep up on the day. Our guide to what affects clearance prices explains the main factors: volume, access, the type of items and how much sorting is needed. Useful photos show each room from the doorway, the loft, the garage and any outside space.
A good quote should also tell you what happens to the items. Ask whether reusable furniture is donated, how electricals and upholstered furniture are handled, and whether you will get a waste transfer note for anything that is disposed of. We keep waste transfer paperwork for every job, and you are always welcome to ask to see our waste carrier registration before we start.
Before the clearance day, let neighbours know a van will be outside. If you have a solicitor, estate agent or keyholder involved, tell them the date. If you cannot be there, arrange for someone to let the team in, or agree how keys will be collected and returned.
Keep the electricity on until after the clearance so lights work in lofts and cellars. Cancel or redirect post, and arrange final meter readings for the day the property is empty. If the house will be unoccupied for a while, check what your home insurer requires, as many policies have conditions for empty homes.
On clearance day, walk round with the team at the start and point out anything that must stay, such as landlord furniture, fitted appliances or items a relative is collecting later. Everything else is then carried out, loaded and taken away for sorting. Once the rooms are empty, the floors are swept so the property is left tidy.
Tip: keep a small box by the front door for anything that turns up during the day that you want to keep. It saves hunting for things later.
Do a final walk-round. Check lofts, under stairs, sheds and the garden. Take photographs of the empty rooms, which are useful for estate agents, landlords or executors keeping records. File the waste paperwork with the rest of your documents.
If you are clearing a whole property, our house clearance service in Whitby page explains what is included. For homes in the villages, see the towns and villages we cover, from Staithes to Ravenscar and inland to Pickering.
If you would like us to take the planning off your hands, call 07795 010 224 or send us a few photos for a free, fixed quote. There is no obligation and no call-out fee.
It depends on your deadline and the time of year, but it helps to get in touch as soon as you know roughly when the property needs to be empty. We will agree a date that suits you, often within a few days, and we can work weekends by arrangement. Sending photos early means you have a fixed price to plan around.
No. Many people we help live away from Whitby. We can work with a keyholder, neighbour, solicitor, estate agent or landlord to get access. Before the day we agree exactly what stays and what goes, and anything valuable, sentimental or official that turns up is set aside and kept safe for you.
There is no need. It is worth taking out the things you want to keep and any important paperwork, but everything else can be left as it is. Sorting through items for reuse, donation, recycling and disposal is part of the job, so you do not need to bag anything up or make trips to the tip.
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Tell us what needs to go. A few photos are the quickest way to an accurate price, and the price we quote is the price you pay.